For those with this Venus/Mars blend, liberation rests in relinquishing the fear of getting “caught slipping”. The modus operandi is to honestly put their best self forward and to forget about looking incompetent.
It’s important to apply energy toward the honoring and promotion of one’s special attributes and achieving recognition for that. There can be the push/pull between feigning “humility” and wanting the limelight. Realize that helping and serving others will always be important to you, but one need not sacrifice appreciation of one’s self simply to be a champion for other people and nothing else.