Astrological Compatibility & The “3 Dynamics” : A Broader View

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When traveling the road of Astrological compatibility, much of the writing I’ve read implies a point of view which excludes what I would call “holistic energies”, from the picture.

There seems to be more of an emphasis on whether “this sign works with that sign” rather than how intimate relationships can be part of a gateway which serves our total development.

So, the focus becomes whether Scorpio and Sagittarius “get along” versus what types of relationships are necessary to grow into the type of people we’re supposed to become.

One of the things I discuss frequently with clients are three dynamics, which are simultaneously individual, yet inseparable.

When considering what a truly “compatible” union actually means, all of these passages must have the potential to flourish:

(1) The dynamic of personal development– When we’re dealing with questions of compatibility. It’s essential that we ask about our own potential to develop within the framework of the relationship. Often, we find ourselves wildly attracted to the prospect of being involved with a partner only to discover later on that the coupling stifles, rather than nurtures the person we’re aspiring to be. In essence, we find ourselves trapped. While one part of the relationship may be “adequate”, we feel a certain discontent which could possibly morph into animosity, because we’re well aware that we want to maximize our gifts on a wider scale.

(2) The dynamic of the “other’s” development–  Much of what was just said now applies to the other person (or people) we may be relating to. The questions we must ask ourselves now center around if we’re providing adequate space and support for our partner(s) to grow. Due largely to our conditioning, we may feel that we should now receive exclusive “priority” in every possible situation because we’re in a relationship. However, the fact remains that our partner had goals and objectives which were completely outside of us before we met, and it’s most likely that they still do. We now have to question our capacity to develop strategies which make room for and encourage them in their pursuit of self-expression.

(3) The “shared” dynamic – This ebb and flow deals with synergy. Everything we are as a “couple”. Our collective philosophy and mission statement of the relationship. It’s what we wish to produce as a “team”, and the energy we enjoy when both people have been pursuing their self-actualization and bring it back into the fold as a tool for learning and instruction, as to strengthen and expand the union. Also, questions emerge as to what type of relationship we’re expressing to the community at large. We ask how us being together helps to affect the lives of others, and what our aims are, if any, for adding to the advancement of the collective.

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I’m putting forth the idea that compatibility be viewed in a much wider context than it has been, or else we’re most likely selling ourselves short from a holistic view.

When we ignore the totality of our being, we can easily create room for significant imbalances to creep into our relationships. We may love being with our partner, but suddenly realize we have “no life” outside of her/him.

Or, we may become so caught up in outside pursuits that we don’t effectively prioritize that special time needed for cultivation of our relationship.

In addition, we could become so engulfed in presenting a “front” to society as a “power couple”, managing our image to appear in a certain light, and forget all about the larger purpose of why we came together.

Truly effective astrology produces many more questions for further exploration than hardcore answers. I’m inviting all of you, who may be involved with a partner(s), or thinking about embarking on the journey of an intimate relationship, to carefully consider this food for thought and digest what you see fit and eliminate what doesn’t serve you at this time.

 

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Leo Sun, Taurus Moon : “Stay Shinin'”

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Earth and radiance.

Your “shine” is created through the recognition and harnessing of your inner value. Until you’re able to explore in all of its facets, what you’re worth, your personal projection ceases to generate the heat and light you aspire to.

Recognition, admiration and attention as a regal being ignites your spirit. Ideally this status is for the purposes of illuminating the potential in others as well as yourself, and allowing your expression to be a gift which emits rays of creativity than one that blinds with an inflated ego.

Building yourself up is essential, but the question remains as to how you’ll share what you’ve gathered with the larger collective.  Delving deeper into your feelings and curbing the impulse to accept them at face value is something which can benefit you.

The ability to burn away any material which causes inertia, rigidity or an one dimensional outlook is your friend. Understand that you can simultaneously maintain fixity of purpose and accept your ever changing, unfolding nature of becoming.

Your theme song is “Stay Shinin’ by Dynasty featuring Talib Kweli

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Gemini Sun, Leo Moon, Aquarius Rising

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The freedom to circulate like air fuels your vitality. The sooner you recognize your many facets and realize that it’s impossible for you to be trapped in any type of box- the better.

Your emotional needs center around issues of self-confidence and honest acceptance of your uniqueness. You must feel validated from the inside in order to be fulfilled. Much of your life’s journey is about exercising youthful curiosity and asking the right questions, which will yield useful information and expanded understanding.

The primary lens through which you process your experience is one which challenges what some would refer to as “customary” or “normal”.

For you, the status quo is something to be questioned at all costs. You seek to serve and uplift humanity on a large scale and will find that exercising your ability for objective detachment will allow you to see people and issues from a much wider view, which automatically increases everything you’re able to take into your storehouse.

For your being to illuminate, it’s important that you feel literate in the most authentic sense. To be engaged in that which stimulates you energizes your life force . Even if you come across ideas which may be “conflicting” , you somehow have a knack for understanding and navigating life’s dualities.

For you, the key component which needs to be incorporated is genuine self-esteem.  That is, the ability to develop your personal identity and subsequently attach a value to it. Do you like what you see? How do you feel about what you’re becoming?

Because the work of the Gemini Sun is done through the Leo Moon, your specialness must be solidified and enjoyed before you can do the work of exploring all of your dimensions. It’s also important to recognize that rejection of certain parts of yourself can limit your capacity to connect with others and this will debilitate that Aquarius rising “common touch” that you would regularly display under more healthy circumstances.

Enjoy being yourself with all of your quirks, never stop asking relevant questions and use differences in people as a vehicle to gain more understanding of yourself and others.

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Leo Sun, Pisces Moon : “The Creator”

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You were born to stick out, but maybe not for the reasons that immediately come to mind.  The simple fluidity of your natural personality can poeticize an already dramatic flair for self-presentation.

Gaining attention from others fuels your vitality. To be accepted and validated for just being you assists in your aspiring to greater heights, and also experiencing a oneness with the universe. However, it’s paramount that you don’t get so caught up in playing a role that you lose sight of what feeds you: connecting to spiritual source.

What you need is feelings of inner peace. this comes through nurturing your empathy, which is the desire to identify with the thoughts and feelings of others so you’ll know exactly where to radiate your light of inspiration.

Your confidence gradually increases when you feel like you’re uplifting humanity and bridging divisions. Your aspirations of self-actualization have the opportunity to shine most visibly through the recognition of the things which unite human beings rather than what keeps us at odds. Through this process, you’re achieving a more comprehensive understanding of what makes you happy in the intangible sense.

One of the dysfunctional and psychologically disordered manifestations of this combinations is getting high on other’s seeming admiration. Emotional intoxication as a gateway to grandiose ego inflation.

In essence, you’re a CREATOR.

Your theme song is “The Creator” by Pete Rock & CL Smooth

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Leo Sun, Sagittarius Moon : “Star and the Sky”

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Here, we have a serious synthesis of warm regality and lofty and far sighted thought energy. With this Sun/Moon duo, the fuel of seeking recognition and validation for one’s uniqueness and irreplaceability is reflected and given form through a personality which aims to have an impact on the world through the ideas and IDEALS which permeate their life philosophy.

The Sagittarian arrows of expansive mental activity have the potential to be illuminated or scorched by the light of the Leo Sun, depending on one’s overall level of development.

Through this astrological signature, we develop a portrait of one who’s energized by the sheer enjoyment of life and the creativity and “play” elements that are included in one’s personal, explorative journey. Being liked, admired and seen as special by others boosts one’s vitality and having one’s opinions respected and taken seriously provides the emotional nourishment.

There’s no question that a fiery and robust spirit is present, which seeks an enormous amount of freedom to navigate the world with the specific purpose of finding more of themselves. The danger in taking this to the extreme results in a failure to recognize that you already ARE what you seek. With this combination, the notion of “hero-worship” should fly out the window because with the proper effort applied towards your personal development, you are indeed THAT HERO.

A noble warmth combined with a high-minded thirst for knowledge and understanding is the ideal for a Leo Sun, Sagittarius Moon blend.  When operating dysfunctionally, a haughty self-righteousness and an overly inflated sense of importance take the front seat, which not only blinds you, but also those around you, which in turn, obscures all of your good intentions.

More than anything, what you want is to live in passionate pursuit of ideals and then actually LIVE them out. With this double fire combination one must guard against “all INSPIRATION and no PERSPIRATION.”

Astrologer Noel Tyl states:

“Two fire signs in this blend take the ego-recognition energies and shoot them high: there’s drama, daring, adventure and love all lifted up to where ideals catch fire. The flow is almost too easy, and the enthusiasms that abound can burn up all the fuel. One can ride through life too easily on appearances and desires, rather than on effort and accomplishment.”

 

What we see as the ultimate goal stated in this combination of solar strength and distant contemplation, is:  to be as much of one’s authentic self as humanly possible by embodying and demonstrating one’s worldview through a shining example of exemplary behavior.

Your theme song is: “Star and the Sky” by Dynasty featuring Skyzoo

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Reference: Synthesis & Counseling In Astrology by Noel Tyl

Leo Sun, Cancer Moon : “Royalty Capes”

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One of your foremost life lessons is this:

To radiate your exuberant life energy, it’s a necessity that you be secure within yourself and surroundings. A firm foundation, whether operating through connection to biological family, supportive friends or a spiritual connection to your ancestral lineage is essential to your ability to creatively express the uniqueness that is YOU.

With this Sun/Moon combination, there’s a potential for both of the “lights” or luminaries to operate at their fullest capacity: shining and reflecting. This blend suggests the potential to hold a large vision for yourself while simultaneously fostering and nurturing growth in others you’re close to.

You thrive on intimate connections. Not only one on one, but also with the world at large on the stage of public attention. Sooner or later, you’ll have to balance the need for inward seeking solitude and being outwardly celebrated.

Love, peace and happiness  could very well describe your life’s motto:

Love for yourself and the authentic person you’re unfolding into, peace of mind and heart knowing that you’re emotionally secure and there’s no looming threat in your life which wreaks havoc on your vulnerability, and happiness with the manner in which you’re able to play, enjoy life and express your creative gifts.

These are coded instructions for your fulfillment.

With their use, you could very well find an optimal way of operating which aligns beautifully with your aspirations.

For those with this Sun/Moon blend, your theme song is: “Royalty Capes” by De La Soul. You can listen to it here:

Venus in Leo, Mars in Leo

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Astrologically speaking, whenever Venus and Mars are involved, themes of the archetypal feminine and masculine rise to the surface. It’s to be emphasized that the feminine and masculine are general principles rather than gender specific.

We could say that the masculine is the driving and asserting part of us while the feminine is the yielding, flowing and collaborating one.

With this Sun-ruled combination of Venus and Mars in Leo, we automatically veer into the lane which concerns itself with gaining a sense of validation and specialness in one’s relationships as well as devising a fruitful strategy for applying one’s energy into the world in a manner which promises an opportunity for heightened creative self-expression.

One of the questions that emerges from this Venus & Mars combination is:

How can I align my personal values and relationships with my need to assert myself creatively and apply those gifts to my worldly pursuits?

One of the traps or dysfunctions of this combination can be the failure to make the distinction between when one is being and “performing.”

Where ‘being’ is a natural state the act of ‘performing’ suggests a need to be “on” for whomever or whatever is in question, whether it’s an intimate partner, family member or boss. In having this combination, one must be careful about using the reaction of others (whether positive or negative) as a barometer for one’s own worth or self-esteem.

If this is carried too far, there’s the danger of continuously seeking out the company of those who simply “make you feel good” about yourself without questioning what other redeeming value they have in your life.

Furthermore, one must avoid being overly invested in gaining and maintaining the admiration of others or allowing the concerns surrounding if people “like what they see” to debilitate one’s creative juices or risk-taking capacity.

If navigated successfully, the sheer solar energy can help carry your efforts forward in a fashion where you don’t have to continuously ask others: “how does this light make me look.?”

The fact that this combination, and all of the potentials included,  is your birthright matters more than anything that anyone else would have to say about it.

 

Capricorn Sun, Leo Moon

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Star Status.

Two words which immediately come to mind when considering the immense potential of this Sun/Moon combination.

You want to make your mark in the world, and your self-expression is strongly connected to your sense of dignity and integrity. It’s important to you that your internal pride and confidence shine through. In fact, your personality needs that for the ultimate in fulfillment. The chance to make things happen and receive public recognition for your hard work is what fuels you. Just know that whatever you do: it’s “good enough”, as fear and doubt are the antithesis to your aspirations.

Yes, you can become a star in your own right if you remain true to the ideals of consistency, discipline and dedication to tangible results in the physical world. In fact, what some may regard as the rigors of everyday life actually keep you sane to some extent.

It’s important for you to understand that gaining notice from others automatically leaves you open to scrutiny as well as praise and validation. Accept this fact, and count on your sense of sturdiness which takes them both in stride. Equally resisting the traps of overindulgence in the illusory glamours of the world and the hiccup of succumbing to the projections of others, who frankly lack your sense of charisma and panache.

Whether stars are born or made, you have a shot at the “big time”. So, what will you’re next move be?

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Astrological Archetypes By Zodiac Sign

Aries: The warrior. The “battering ram”. The Fighter. The time bomb. The pioneer. The athlete. The risk taker. The brave one. The adrenaline junkie. The champion.

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Taurus: The money maker. The couch potato. The sensualist. The aesthete. The voice. The “maxer & relaxer”. Laid back.. The builder. the pragmatist. The muse. The consistent one. The comfort junkie.

Gemini: The journalist. The scribe. The messenger. The quiz show participant. The crossword junkie. The talk radio addict. The student. The dilettante. The curious one. The youthful one. The gossip. The social butterfly. The Jill/Jack of all trades.

Cancer: The listening heart. the comforter. The feminine goddess. The mother. The protector. The tenacious one. The safe haven. The mirror. The sensitive. the intuitive. The warm respondent. The nurturer. The loony one.

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Leo: The show stopper. The performer. The queen and king. The aristocrat. The celebrity. the hero. The romanticist. The light. the egomaniac. The attention seeker. The embodiment of self-expression.

Virgo: Ms./Mr. precision. The analyst. The “tweaker” . The troubleshooter. The efficiency expert. The purist. The six sigma specialist. The critic. The technician.

Libra: The artist. The host. The mediator. The relater. Ms/Mr. interested. The beauty. The love doctor. The diplomat. The smooth operator. The peacemaker. The fence- sitter. The judge. The refined one. The negotiator. The matchmaker.

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Scorpio: The deep well. Ms/Mr.intensity. The investigator. The powerhouse of passion. The secret agent. The shaman. the wizard. The healer. The stalker. The psychoanalyst. The villain. The underworld guide. The transformer.

Sagittarius: The professor. The wild stallion. The guru. The philosopher. Reverend “do good”. The know it all. The dogmatist. The loud mouth.The synthesizer. The promoter. The moralist. The bigot. The bookworm. Ms./Mr. opinionated. The library. The teacher.The guide. the coach.

 

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Capricorn: The executive. The CEO. The wise elder. The strategist. The master. Big poppa. The soul controller. the stuffed shirt. The dignified one. Ms./Mr. integrity. Battle tested. The achiever. the professional. The authority. The administrator. The worker. Ms./Mr. discipline.

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Aquarius: The rebel. The weirdo. The beatnik. The revolutionary. The futurist. The eccentric. The free spirit. The reformer. The activist. the humanitarian. The mad scientist. The non-conformist. The individualist. Ms./Mr. Socially conscious.

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Pisces: The mystic. The dreamer. The creative. The believer. The illusionist. The sponge. The Martyr. The victim. The savior. The deceiver.The addict. The poet. the avoidant. The medium. the channel. The empath.

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Sun & Moon Blends For Aries

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Aries Sun, Aries Moon:  The life fuel consists of an assertive thrust of identity in service of meeting the emotional need to be first. What’s needed are experiences which will allow one to come in contact with the warrior within and illicit courage and strength.

Aries Sun, Taurus Moon: The enterprising, spearheading energy of the ram has the potential to be supported by a solid, practical foundation which can provide tangible results of pioneering efforts.

Aries Sun, Gemini Moon: The intellectual warrior. The urge to “get moving” is coupled with a clever adaptability. Potential to meet swiftly changing circumstances with mental and physical resolve.

Aries Sun, Cancer Moon: The warrior with a heart. A powerful combination of raw passion and acute intuition. The strong sensitive. The potential to harness emotional forces which aid one in swift, decisive action. There’s a delicate balance between risk and security.

Aries Sun, Leo Moon: The dynamo. The lifetime assignment suggests an immediate urge to creatively express one’s unique talents and gifts and share them with the world. Reigning need for recognition and validation of essential identity. Fulfilled through being noticed and personal rulership.

Aries Sun, Virgo Moon : Yields sword with precision. Fueled by the direct and assertive distribution of energy and fulfilled by it’s precise application. Needs to align identity presentation with service which is useful and improves conditions. Potential to courageously move forward and also stop to analyze life direction.

Aries Sun, Libra Moon: Iron fist, velvet glove. Potential to exert force in an even-handed, diplomatic manner. Propelled by individualistic pursuits, yet fulfilled through partnership and collaborations.

Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon: The passionate warrior. Ignited by an individual path which consists of plumbing the depths to unearth life’s mysteries. Fervent pursuit to discover the most vital parts of one’s identity. potential to stand up bravely and face one’s emotional shadow.

Aries Sun, Sagittarius Moon: Fervent, passionate conviction. The motivation to make one’s mark and distinguish one’s self blends with an assertive thrust of intellectual exploration. Physical and mental freedom serve as prize possessions. Needs self and opinions to be taken seriously.

Aries Sun, Capricorn Moon: The assertive administrator. There’s an expenditure of energy toward making things happen. To initiate activity and follow through as to see results in public recognition and tangible rewards. Ambition is a hot commodity and vital resource.

Aries Sun, Aquarius Moon: Revolutionary warfare. A significant amount of life energy is expended toward fulfilling the reigning need to be inventive and original in freeing oneself from societal and cultural restraints.

Aries Sun, Pisces Moon: The spiritual warrior. The urge to merge with “the source” is heightened as well as the need to display personal empathy. “Rugged charisma” is attached to the projection of identity. A potential blend of kinetic and emotional intelligence.

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